One Family’s 30-Year Commitment Highlights Need for More Foster Families

REDWOOD CITY, Calif. - The County of San Mateo's Children and Family Services is honoring Betsy Rose and Paul Franklin for 30 years of extraordinary service as Resource Parents, opening their home and hearts to adolescent boys in need of safety, stability, and lasting family connections.

Over three decades, the Franklins partnered closely with the County's Resource Family Program, formerly known as foster families, in a specialized role which supports youth experiencing behavioral challenges related to complex trauma. They are known for providing high-quality, consistent care to adolescent boys, many of whom remained in their home until they found a permanent family or reached adulthood.

"The Franklins' commitment went far beyond meeting basic needs," said Claire Cunningham, Director of the County's Human Services Agency. "They supported each child's interests, whether in music, athletics, or other activities that helped build confidence, skills, and a sense of belonging."

Betsy Franklin, known lovingly as Ms. Betsy, is especially known for cheering enthusiastically for her children from the sidelines at games.

In addition to caring for 12 children in foster placement, Betsy and Paul adopted three of the boys they raised. Betsy also took legal guardianship of her grandson. Many of the young people who grew up in the Franklins' home, now adults, remain closely connected to them, referring to Betsy and Paul as their mother and father and always as family.

"Not one went back to the county," said Betsy Franklin, reflecting on the children placed in her care. "Everyone graduated from high school. Three went to college, and one got his master's degree. I love my boys."

As their youngest child prepares to turn 18 in fall 2026, the Franklins have decided to retire from their role as Resource Parents.

"On behalf of the County of San Mateo, we thank and honor the Franklins for their dedication, compassion, and unwavering support for the boys in their home," said John Fong, Director of Children and Family Services for the County of San Mateo's Human Services Agency.

The County's Resource Family Approval Program connects caring adults with children and youth who have been removed from their homes because of abuse or neglect. These children, from infancy through age 21, need families who can provide comfort, stability, and support during uncertain times.

Resource Families come from all backgrounds. They may be single or married, younger or older, homeowners or renters. The County of San Mateo especially encourages Spanish-speaking families and families from diverse cultural backgrounds to apply, helping children grow in settings that reflect and honor their language, culture, and identity.

Approved families receive comprehensive training, free CPR and First Aid certification, and ongoing support, including mentorship and a monthly stipend to help meet each child's needs. The approval process typically takes about three months and includes background checks, home inspections, and orientation classes, all at no cost.

For those inspired by the Franklins' story, becoming a Resource Family is a meaningful way to make a lasting difference in the life of a child or teen. To learn more about becoming a Resource Family and to see how you can make a lasting difference in a child's life, visit www.helpsanmateokids.com , call (650) 802-7636 or email [email protected].

Paul Laustsen
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